A Good First Date

I’m a dating coach who’s worked with hundreds of men and women on how to navigate modern dating more effectively. My background is unusual: years in corporate finance, years as a single parent building a life in New York City, and a stint as a professional matchmaker. Together, these give me a structured, insider’s view of how the dating market really works. If you’re successful in most parts of your life but can’t seem to figure out dating, you’re not alone. The issue isn’t you — it’s that dating today requires a different skill set. Dating apps are their own market with specific mechanics. Texting isn’t casual communication, it’s a protocol. A first date isn’t a romantic milestone, it’s a screen for a second date. Without understanding these systems, even the most accomplished people waste time and energy. That’s why my coaching is pragmatic and results-oriented. I build frameworks for- Profiles that position you correctly so you attract the right audience- Texting strategies that convert matches into dates without endless back-and-forth- First-date protocols that keep the process efficient and fun while screening effectively- Iterative feedback loops that use your results as data to refine your approach. I’m also exploring the cutting edge of technology to accelerate this process. Using Virtual Reality and AI-powered simulations, I help people practice real-life dating scenarios—from texting to mock first dates—in a safe, structured environment. This isn’t theory; it’s applied training that builds confidence and improves performance in the situations that matter most. My work is simple: take the guesswork out of dating, replace it with a process, and make it as efficient and rewarding as the rest of your life.