Tend Task

Tend Task provides research-backed relationship coaching for high-achieving couples who want to create equal partnerships that support their ambitions. Founded on seven years of research into modern partnership dynamics, our coaching programs help couples build both the emotional connection ("tend") and practical systems ("task") needed for relationship success. Our approach is uniquely designed for couples navigating pivotal life transitions: Engaged couples: Through our "I Do Differently" program, we combine ceremony design with premarital coaching to help couples start their marriage on equal footing, using the wedding planning process as practice for creating lasting partnership equity. New & expecting parents: Our "TEND Technique" helps couples maintain relationship satisfaction through parenthood, with evidence-based systems for sharing mental load and maintaining connection despite busy schedules. High-achieving professionals: Our custom coaching programs help ambitious couples balance dual careers, optimize communication, and create scalable partnership frameworks that grow with their success. What sets us apart is our comprehensive, evidence-based methodology. As a certified relationship coach with advanced training in the Gottman method, Organization and Relationship Systems Coaching (ORSC), and conflict management, I bring unique expertise in both relationship dynamics and ceremony design. Our programs combine bite-sized video training, practical exercises, and personalized coaching to create lasting change even for the busiest couples.