Tom Lyman

Background

About Tom Lyman

I can’t believe my wife didn’t leave me. I had the money, the businesses, and the picture-perfect family—but I was secretly drowning in addiction, pride, and compromise. Now, I help men conquer what’s been conquering them and step boldly into the life God called them to live. For years, I lived what looked like a successful life—multiple businesses, financial security, and the image of a man who had it all together. But behind closed doors, I was addicted to pornography, alcohol, drugs, and adultery. I was double-minded—driven by ego and empty inside. I knew how to build things, but not how to build a life that honored God. On December 12, 2021, I broke. In total surrender, I gave everything to God—and that’s when everything changed. Through deep healing and restoration, God rebuilt me from the inside out. Today, I help other men experience the same transformation. I’ve lived through the destruction of sin and the power of God’s mercy. I know what happens when a man finally stops hiding and starts healing. Answering God’s call, I stepped into full-time ministry. Now, I coach men to walk out of addiction, shame, and confusion—and into strength, clarity, and Kingdom purpose. I use everything I’ve learned—the hard lessons, the victories, and the Word of God—to guide men out of defeat and into lives of freedom and fire. I call it THE BLUEPRINT—a coaching system rooted in Biblical truth and proven process. Once a man learns to read, understand, and follow THE BLUEPRINT, it works every time. I serve men, churches, and ministries through: • One-on-one coaching for men in recovery, transition, or leadership • Biblical programs for men’s groups and discipleship • Speaking and teaching at events, churches, and retreats • Consulting to build action-driven men’s ministries Whether you’re a pastor wanting to activate the men in your church, a leader who’s lost his fire, or a man tired of losing the same battles—I’m here to help. If you’re ready to rise up with integrity, courage, and purpose—let’s connect. Freedom is possible. Purpose is waiting. Let’s go get it.